Happy 60th birthday year, Jena!

Happy 60th birthday year, Jena!

Where did you first meet Jena?
I first met Jena when I was invited on the annual gal pal ski trip but our first true date was at her Sauganash house before I moved to Chicago. Holly set it up as she and “Chief husband, Dave”, were about to be married. She knew Jena was in need of another single bestie once she and Dave tied the knot. I brought flowers and wine to butter her up as I knew stepping in as Holly’s backup would be a hard sell! Jena gave me the cold shoulder the first few hours but quickly warmed up when I showed interest in home remodeling, moving furniture, talking to mediums, and basically being convinced to do anything, whenever!

I first met Jena when I was invited on the annual gal pal ski trip but our first true date was at her Sauganash house before I moved to Chicago. Holly set it up as she and “Chief husband, Dave”, were about to be married. She knew Jena was in need of another single bestie once she and Dave tied the knot. I brought flowers and wine to butter her up as I knew stepping in as Holly’s backup would be a hard sell! Jena gave me the cold shoulder the first few hours but quickly warmed up when I showed interest in home remodeling, moving furniture, talking to mediums, and basically being convinced to do anything, whenever!

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
FUN, SILLY, out there, lovable, generous, AMAZING

FUN, SILLY, out there, lovable, generous, AMAZING

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Every trip we take! Skiing, Montana, Palm Springs (did Jena tell ya?!), Sedona (hoot & a toot), Mexico, Maine, Menomonie, Minneapolis, Napa, Union Pier, Portugal, Azores, Santa Fe (Los Mewomi Tribe) …
Thanks for including me in all the fun. I look forward to many more adventures!!

Every trip we take! Skiing, Montana, Palm Springs (did Jena tell ya?!), Sedona (hoot & a toot), Mexico, Maine, Menomonie, Minneapolis, Napa, Union Pier, Portugal, Azores, Santa Fe (Los Mewomi Tribe) …<br /> Thanks for including me in all the fun. I look forward to many more adventures!!

How has Jena impacted your life?
Love stepping out of life’s ordinary box with Jena!

Love stepping out of life’s ordinary box with Jena!

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Jena is simply the BEST!! Happy 60th year and decade ahead! Love you 🩷

Jena is simply the BEST!! Happy 60th year and decade ahead! Love you 🩷

First of all, I feel compelled to offer an introduction and caveat. It should be noted that I am married to the birthday girl (should readers of this narrative not know). Yes, her last name (albeit, not legal) is "Armistead." As her husband for more than eight years, I remain her greatest advocate and supporter, and proud to be her life-partner. As such, what I have to say is probably a bit embellished (and perhaps biased) but is meaningful to me and is a genuine expression derived from my heart and its reflection. Clearly, and inequivalently, I am a very fortunate person to hold the title of "husband" as she celebrates this significant milestone. That said...

First of all, I feel compelled to offer an introduction and caveat. It should be noted that I am married to the birthday girl (should readers of this narrative not know). Yes, her last name (albeit, not legal) is "Armistead." As her husband for more than eight years, I remain her greatest advocate and supporter, and proud to be her life-partner. As such, what I have to say is probably a bit embellished (and perhaps biased) but is meaningful to me and is a genuine expression derived from my heart and its reflection. Clearly, and inequivalently, I am a very fortunate person to hold the title of "husband" as she celebrates this significant milestone. That said...

Where did you first meet Jena?
Through the graces of "match.com," I was given the opportunity to become introduced to Jena. While reading her online profile, I thought to myself..."no way!" Is she for real...firearm certification, climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro, scuba diving certification, pilot's license and world-wide explorer." How cool but I did maintain my reservations--after all, everyone exaggerates on social media--including me. Furthermore, here is a 51-year-old absolutely gorgeous, talented, and a successful professional lady who has not been "betrothed" prior to her 5th decade on this Earth. That fact made me question, curious, and a bit reserved. But I needed to ascertain the answers to my questions and satisfy my reservations. I inquired. Jena responded--probably with equal amounts of apprehension and hesitation. We met for lunch in Nashville--while I was living in Lexington, KY. The six-hour drive (to and from) was worth the energy and time, as we laughed and smiled--conversing as if we were long-time friends. It was easy and comfortable. I was eager to continue our dialogue, but she had other commitments, so we said our "good-byes." I must say that I left the first date with much hope but, even more than that, with a heck of a lot of respect and admiration for this person given what I learned about her during the courses of an appetizer and entree on a Sunday afternoon.

Through the graces of "match.com," I was given the opportunity to become introduced to Jena. While reading her online profile, I thought to myself..."no way!" Is she for real...firearm certification, climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro, scuba diving certification, pilot's license and world-wide explorer." How cool but I did maintain my reservations--after all, everyone exaggerates on social media--including me. Furthermore, here is a 51-year-old absolutely gorgeous, talented, and a successful professional lady who has not been "betrothed" prior to her 5th decade on this Earth. That fact made me question, curious, and a bit reserved. But I needed to ascertain the answers to my questions and satisfy my reservations. I inquired. Jena responded--probably with equal amounts of apprehension and hesitation. We met for lunch in Nashville--while I was living in Lexington, KY. The six-hour drive (to and from) was worth the energy and time, as we laughed and smiled--conversing as if we were long-time friends. It was easy and comfortable. I was eager to continue our dialogue, but she had other commitments, so we said our "good-byes." I must say that I left the first date with much hope but, even more than that, with a heck of a lot of respect and admiration for this person given what I learned about her during the courses of an appetizer and entree on a Sunday afternoon.

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Five words cannot do justice...as such I will go outside the bounds of this question. To know Jena is to understand that she is comprised of heartfelt devotions and emotions. She has her family first and foremost in her thoughts, mind, and actions. Her commitment is more than unyielding...it is steadfast. Jena is a care-giver by all traits, rights, and definition. She has accepted this role willingly and without reserve regardless of sacrifice or trial. Her love and support for her mother were astonishing and resilient. Her love for my mother were equally so. Her love for her father continues to be unrelenting, dedicated, and prideful. Equally so, Jena, through marriage, has accepted the role of "mother" in earnest and with conviction. From her eyes, Scott and Sarah are her children. She cares for them with unconditional love. The "kids" have learned to look to her as a source of trust and guidance and do so with respect and admiration. They call her more often than they do me! Finally, I must say, that Jena brought me into a circle of friends that she adores...her "gal-pals." She is fully committed to their welfare and care. So, I must reiterate that selecting a limited set of adjectives describing her fully is an arduous task. But I would contend that her greatest attributes stem from her heart--she cares, is devoted, maintains compassion, and always offers a genuine smile and hug.

Five words cannot do justice...as such I will go outside the bounds of this question. To know Jena is to understand that she is comprised of heartfelt devotions and emotions. She has her family first and foremost in her thoughts, mind, and actions. Her commitment is more than unyielding...it is steadfast. Jena is a care-giver by all traits, rights, and definition. She has accepted this role willingly and without reserve regardless of sacrifice or trial. Her love and support for her mother were astonishing and resilient. Her love for my mother were equally so. Her love for her father continues to be unrelenting, dedicated, and prideful. Equally so, Jena, through marriage, has accepted the role of "mother" in earnest and with conviction. From her eyes, Scott and Sarah are her children. She cares for them with unconditional love. The "kids" have learned to look to her as a source of trust and guidance and do so with respect and admiration. They call her more often than they do me! Finally, I must say, that Jena brought me into a circle of friends that she adores...her "gal-pals." She is fully committed to their welfare and care. So, I must reiterate that selecting a limited set of adjectives describing her fully is an arduous task. But I would contend that her greatest attributes stem from her heart--she cares, is devoted, maintains compassion, and always offers a genuine smile and hug.

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Jena has made me more adventurist and fills my calendar with unique and exciting opportunities. Every day offers a laugh and a new comical escapade. That is who she is. Yet, I am glad to say that I have done the same for her and have tested her limits and comfort zones...such as fishing. The picture below depicting her facial expression after catching a salmon in Alaska should have been on the cover of some tourist brochure. Our guide insisted that she hold her fish. Her response, in no uncertain and adamant terms, was "no, no, no!" While resistant she eventually complied. In doing so, we laughed until tears were bountiful. The fishing guide rejoiced. Upon release of the fish, Jena was ready for more and waded back into the river to get her line wet and readied herself to bring in another trophy. I was done and felt completely satisfied watching her from shore for the remainder of the outing! Jena was the champion of the day.

Jena has made me more adventurist and fills my calendar with unique and exciting opportunities. Every day offers a laugh and a new comical escapade. That is who she is. Yet, I am glad to say that I have done the same for her and have tested her limits and comfort zones...such as fishing. The picture below depicting her facial expression after catching a salmon in Alaska should have been on the cover of some tourist brochure. Our guide insisted that she hold her fish. Her response, in no uncertain and adamant terms, was "no, no, no!" While resistant she eventually complied. In doing so, we laughed until tears were bountiful. The fishing guide rejoiced. Upon release of the fish, Jena was ready for more and waded back into the river to get her line wet and readied herself to bring in another trophy. I was done and felt completely satisfied watching her from shore for the remainder of the outing! Jena was the champion of the day.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena serves as an example with which to follow. Through her giving heart, her sincere and genuine persona, outspokenness, and commitment to others, she is my role model. Thankfully, she is my life-partner and even more...my "best-friend." As the saying goes, “Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.” The times that we share are joyful and meaningful. She instills in me senses of confidence, wonder, anticipation, gladness, and purpose. We confide in one another that is true, meaningful, open, and honest. Her goals in life are my goals. My goals are hers'. Clearly, I am a very lucky person to have her by my side. The best thing is our ventures in life have just begun.

Jena serves as an example with which to follow. Through her giving heart, her sincere and genuine persona, outspokenness, and commitment to others, she is my role model. Thankfully, she is my life-partner and even more...my "best-friend." As the saying goes, “Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.” The times that we share are joyful and meaningful. She instills in me senses of confidence, wonder, anticipation, gladness, and purpose. We confide in one another that is true, meaningful, open, and honest. Her goals in life are my goals. My goals are hers'. Clearly, I am a very lucky person to have her by my side. The best thing is our ventures in life have just begun.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
While turning 60 is a milestone, Jena has just now begun her journey in life. She will continue to lead her life driven by her virtues, compassion and principles and make her mark in ways that may be undiscerned at the present moment in time. Yet, I know that those persons (and animals) that are a part of her "family" and world will feel her presence as she is devoted to ensuring that her loved ones have a better day tomorrow than what they had today. Clearly, Jena is a blessing to many--to all. I am anxious to witness the next chapters and adventures that await. I am a fortunate person to be able to call her my wife, partner, and best friend. Happy birthday my love.

While turning 60 is a milestone, Jena has just now begun her journey in life. She will continue to lead her life driven by her virtues, compassion and principles and make her mark in ways that may be undiscerned at the present moment in time. Yet, I know that those persons (and animals) that are a part of her "family" and world will feel her presence as she is devoted to ensuring that her loved ones have a better day tomorrow than what they had today. Clearly, Jena is a blessing to many--to all. I am anxious to witness the next chapters and adventures that await. I am a fortunate person to be able to call her my wife, partner, and best friend. Happy birthday my love.

I wish my heart were 50% the size of Cousin Jena's. She is perpetually caring/sharing/giving/loving 24/7/365. Possessing a servant's heart, she is one special lady who Lydia and I love, respect and admire a great deal. Pend, like me, over married and is forever blessed. They are one loving couple who simply do not have boundaries regarding their care, regard and devotion for those in their lives. Jena's wonderful parents, Wanda and Jim, instilled in her a passion to do the right thing, maximize opportunities, show sincerity and gratefulness and be others first focused. I imagine the Hollensteiner Foundation now has benefited over the years dozens of not for profits in positive proactive fashion in Montana, Florida, Michigan and fabulous Tennessee. Lydia and I are forever blessed to be related to her via Pend, and, even though she is unable to sit still and enjoy Nashville, their wonderful doggies and their impressive home here, we cherish and love our time with them. Jena is a life changer, especially for Pend and us. She is a doting sweet stepmother to Sarah and Scott, always there for them no matter what. She was just unbelievable in her care for her mother in law, Eliot, and her genuine nature of making the world a better place impacts all in her path. Her intellect is off the charts, her entrepreneurial spirit is impressive and her gentle way means a great deal to many. Jena handles adversity in wise deliberate fashion, whether it is a very unpleasant family dispute, aging parents, managing dogs, always having an open ear to her brothers and sister Lisa, refraining from wisely not discussing politics, being disappointed by friends occasionally and on and on. Her intangibles are abundant and she scatters joy. At their wedding in Montana, it was clearly evident love was ever present and the blessing God provided Jena and Pend is something to behold.

I wish my heart were 50% the size of Cousin Jena's. She is perpetually caring/sharing/giving/loving 24/7/365. Possessing a servant's heart, she is one special lady who Lydia and I love, respect and admire a great deal. Pend, like me, over married and is forever blessed. They are one loving couple who simply do not have boundaries regarding their care, regard and devotion for those in their lives. Jena's wonderful parents, Wanda and Jim, instilled in her a passion to do the right thing, maximize opportunities, show sincerity and gratefulness and be others first focused. I imagine the Hollensteiner Foundation now has benefited over the years dozens of not for profits in positive proactive fashion in Montana, Florida, Michigan and fabulous Tennessee. Lydia and I are forever blessed to be related to her via Pend, and, even though she is unable to sit still and enjoy Nashville, their wonderful doggies and their impressive home here, we cherish and love our time with them. Jena is a life changer, especially for Pend and us. She is a doting sweet stepmother to Sarah and Scott, always there for them no matter what. She was just unbelievable in her care for her mother in law, Eliot, and her genuine nature of making the world a better place impacts all in her path. Her intellect is off the charts, her entrepreneurial spirit is impressive and her gentle way means a great deal to many. Jena handles adversity in wise deliberate fashion, whether it is a very unpleasant family dispute, aging parents, managing dogs, always having an open ear to her brothers and sister Lisa, refraining from wisely not discussing politics, being disappointed by friends occasionally and on and on. Her intangibles are abundant and she scatters joy. At their wedding in Montana, it was clearly evident love was ever present and the blessing God provided Jena and Pend is something to behold.

Where did you first meet Jena?
Believe it or not, Cousin Jimmy and Bill were with me as Pend's first date with Jena took place at Bricktop's in 2015! First date ... after they had chatted online ! Amazing Jena did not think she was in West VA instead of Nashville ! She showed a great deal of tolerance for the Armisteads, primarily Pend ! She, at first glance, liked us and she had yet to meet wonderful Lydia !!!

Believe it or not, Cousin Jimmy and Bill were with me as Pend's first date with Jena took place at Bricktop's in 2015! First date ... after they had chatted online ! Amazing Jena did not think she was in West VA instead of Nashville ! She showed a great deal of tolerance for the Armisteads, primarily Pend ! She, at first glance, liked us and she had yet to meet wonderful Lydia !!!

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Sincere, devoted, beautiful, energetic, brilliant, happy.

Sincere, devoted, beautiful, energetic, brilliant, happy.

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
At their wedding in Rollins in August 2016, just after the unforgettable touching ceremony, I was standing next to them and took a big sip of lemonade... next I completely freaked out because a yellow jacket was positioned on my cup and it stung my lips! Nice wedding crasher was that damned insect! Cousin Bill Frist, MD went to get an EpiPen to rescue me. Lydia's brand new beautiful blue dress was stained with lemonade, the crowd thought I had suffered a heart attack, guests were buzzing around me, of course, my lips were three times as large as normal, and then things calmed down and I was somewhat back to normal. Then an hour later I sat down outside with Lydia as we gazed at beautiful Flathead Lake and we saw Jena take over for the drummer in the wedding band!!

At their wedding in Rollins in August 2016, just after the unforgettable touching ceremony, I was standing next to them and took a big sip of lemonade... next I completely freaked out because a yellow jacket was positioned on my cup and it stung my lips! Nice wedding crasher was that damned insect! Cousin Bill Frist, MD went to get an EpiPen to rescue me. Lydia's brand new beautiful blue dress was stained with lemonade, the crowd thought I had suffered a heart attack, guests were buzzing around me, of course, my lips were three times as large as normal, and then things calmed down and I was somewhat back to normal. Then an hour later I sat down outside with Lydia as we gazed at beautiful Flathead Lake and we saw Jena take over for the drummer in the wedding band!!

How has Jena impacted your life?
She has illustrated to us life is precious, as is family, of course, and her mild mannered approach to being grounded, steadfast, proactive, loving and a joy to all is excellent example for us to embrace. Again, Jena naturally just scatters joy !

She has illustrated to us life is precious, as is family, of course, and her mild mannered approach to being grounded, steadfast, proactive, loving and a joy to all is excellent example for us to embrace. Again, Jena naturally just scatters joy !

What else would you like to share about Jena?
She has made an indelible positive impact on us via her creativity, energy, unwavering love, ingenuity, fun factor, connectivity and devotion. Pend is a very fortunate person to be her roommate !

She has made an indelible positive impact on us via her creativity, energy, unwavering love, ingenuity, fun factor, connectivity and devotion. Pend is a very fortunate person to be her roommate !

I truly don't know Jena that well as we haven't had much contact since high school, but she has become such a beautiful woman, it's hard to believe we're crossing that threshold into the 60s! Jena wears it well!

I truly don't know Jena that well as we haven't had much contact since high school, but she has become such a beautiful woman, it's hard to believe we're crossing that threshold into the 60s! Jena wears it well!

Where did you first meet Jena?
Barrington Middle School

Barrington Middle School

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Funny, goofy, beautiful, joyful, accomplished

Funny, goofy, beautiful, joyful, accomplished

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Clearly the Ziggy noises we used to make, hands down!

Clearly the Ziggy noises we used to make, hands down!

How has Jena impacted your life?
Honestly, I just love her sense of humor! We need people like Jena, especially today!

Honestly, I just love her sense of humor! We need people like Jena, especially today!

What else would you like to share about Jena?
I pray your life is filled with the Joy of the Lord, and may God bless you as you enter this new decade!

I pray your life is filled with the Joy of the Lord, and may God bless you as you enter this new decade!

I am Jenas favorite nephew

I am Jenas favorite nephew

Where did you first meet Jena?
I was too young to remember meeting Jena but I remember her being apart of my life for as long as I can remember

I was too young to remember meeting Jena but I remember her being apart of my life for as long as I can remember

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Spontaneous, amusing outgoing, smart, entertainer

Spontaneous, amusing outgoing, smart, entertainer

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Jena brought Matthew and Me to numerous amusement parks in Florida in celebration of our 10th birthdays. While on the trip, Jena left Matthew and me unattended at the hotel so we thought it was the perfect time to watch a movie Matthew had brought in his luggage. Matthew had brought the movie Wedding Crashers (don’t think Jena would have approved) so we put it on and that’s when I saw my first pair of boobies. Thanks Jena

Jena brought Matthew and Me to numerous amusement parks in Florida in celebration of our 10th birthdays. While on the trip, Jena left Matthew and me unattended at the hotel so we thought it was the perfect time to watch a movie Matthew had brought in his luggage. Matthew had brought the movie Wedding Crashers (don’t think Jena would have approved) so we put it on and that’s when I saw my first pair of boobies. Thanks Jena

How has Jena impacted your life?
She always brings light to a room, can make the best out of the worst scenarios

She always brings light to a room, can make the best out of the worst scenarios

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Lovable Aunt who makes the best penis butter cookies

Lovable Aunt who makes the best penis butter cookies

Happy 60th Birthday from Yoder Oder (aka Cindyrella)
Thanks for being my precious "BBA" friend.

Happy 60th Birthday from Yoder Oder (aka Cindyrella) <br /> Thanks for being my precious "BBA" friend.

Where did you first meet Jena?
The summer before 2nd grade. A strange new house was being built across the street from us. We went over to meet our new neighbors and Jena and I became fast friends.

The summer before 2nd grade. A strange new house was being built across the street from us. We went over to meet our new neighbors and Jena and I became fast friends.

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Playful, beautiful, smart, loving, loyal

Playful, beautiful, smart, loving, loyal

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
WAY too many to mention - sledding down the driveway double decker crashing into trees, streaking, bouncing on the bed strip shows for your family, wishing on your toes, making mixtures for your brothers to eat, worm necklaces, trampoline jumping, trick or treating in Big Jims overalls any time we wanted candy, biking to LZ for Ben Franklin discounted candy, our fort with chive grass, annoying all of your siblings, experimenting on your little brothers, our Tide commercial, our "fairs" and "Halloween experiences" , jumping off your roof into snow banks, MT /IL/AL summer pen pal letters with fun surprises inside, 4-H related shenanagins and achievements esp. Share the Fun and demonstrations, learning a hard lesson about teasing someone gullible, hide and seek guilt, picking up dog poop and sending it and then sharing during show and tell at school, how you were jealous of my sparkly pink bike with the banana seat and your revenge, Practicing to be Bond girls by spying on the neighbors, double dating with Tom and Dan, how you held my hair for the barf in Carolyn's shoes/car, hanging out and sleepovers with beverages with Carolyn, Vicky & Peggy in HS, Track and Field, golf course parties, being my bridesmaid when I got married, and most recently sauna and cold plunges in Flathead Lake.

WAY too many to mention - sledding down the driveway double decker crashing into trees, streaking, bouncing on the bed strip shows for your family, wishing on your toes, making mixtures for your brothers to eat, worm necklaces, trampoline jumping, trick or treating in Big Jims overalls any time we wanted candy, biking to LZ for Ben Franklin discounted candy, our fort with chive grass, annoying all of your siblings, experimenting on your little brothers, our Tide commercial, our "fairs" and "Halloween experiences" , jumping off your roof into snow banks, MT /IL/AL summer pen pal letters with fun surprises inside, 4-H related shenanagins and achievements esp. Share the Fun and demonstrations, learning a hard lesson about teasing someone gullible, hide and seek guilt, picking up dog poop and sending it and then sharing during show and tell at school, how you were jealous of my sparkly pink bike with the banana seat and your revenge, Practicing to be Bond girls by spying on the neighbors, double dating with Tom and Dan, how you held my hair for the barf in Carolyn's shoes/car, hanging out and sleepovers with beverages with Carolyn, Vicky & Peggy in HS, Track and Field, golf course parties, being my bridesmaid when I got married, and most recently sauna and cold plunges in Flathead Lake.

How has Jena impacted your life?
My years of friendship with Jena have taught me to lean into my playful, silly side and to be adventurous.
There is always something to laugh about even in the toughest of times.

My years of friendship with Jena have taught me to lean into my playful, silly side and to be adventurous. <br /> There is always something to laugh about even in the toughest of times.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
I am forever in your debt Jena for two occasions where she showed me, by her actions, that all you need is one loyal friend standing by your side to get through a tough situation. Example one: "Grapefruit head" kept making fun of my glasses and calling me Yoder Oder on the bus and that made me upset. So one day Jena and I decided to body slam into him together while he was sitting on his bus seat. As we did that Jena announced that
yes, I was Yoder Oder and she was Jena Hollenstinker and to knock it off or we would fart on him! We might have gotten in trouble for that but he stopped bugging me so - effective solution! Example two: Jena voluntarily went to Mr. Key's office (our principal who kept a wooden paddle behind his desk) to sit by my side after that crabby and joyless Mrs. Blum sent me there for standing on my stool with an artfully ripped orange that roughly resembled a golden crown, doing an excellent impression of the Queen of England, Monty Python Style. We got a lecture from him on setting a good example for younger students and no paddling thankfully! Karma for Mrs. Blum: I used her for inspiration for my part as lunch lady in one of the senior variety shows to great acclaim.

I am forever in your debt Jena for two occasions where she showed me, by her actions, that all you need is one loyal friend standing by your side to get through a tough situation. Example one: "Grapefruit head" kept making fun of my glasses and calling me Yoder Oder on the bus and that made me upset. So one day Jena and I decided to body slam into him together while he was sitting on his bus seat. As we did that Jena announced that <br /> yes, I was Yoder Oder and she was Jena Hollenstinker and to knock it off or we would fart on him! We might have gotten in trouble for that but he stopped bugging me so - effective solution! Example two: Jena voluntarily went to Mr. Key's office (our principal who kept a wooden paddle behind his desk) to sit by my side after that crabby and joyless Mrs. Blum sent me there for standing on my stool with an artfully ripped orange that roughly resembled a golden crown, doing an excellent impression of the Queen of England, Monty Python Style. We got a lecture from him on setting a good example for younger students and no paddling thankfully! Karma for Mrs. Blum: I used her for inspiration for my part as lunch lady in one of the senior variety shows to great acclaim.

My fondest memories of Jena are when she started giving me rides to high school. I thought I was so cool getting to skip the lame bus and being dropped off and sometimes taken home by a hot, popular chick! Oh yeah!

My fondest memories of Jena are when she started giving me rides to high school. I thought I was so cool getting to skip the lame bus and being dropped off and sometimes taken home by a hot, popular chick! Oh yeah!

Where did you first meet Jena?
As a neighbor in North Barrington, at our local 4-H club.

As a neighbor in North Barrington, at our local 4-H club.

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Down-to-earth, cool, great sense of humor, friendly, beautiful

Down-to-earth, cool, great sense of humor, friendly, beautiful

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
I don't recall the specifics, but we uncontrollably laughed our asses off for a good hour and couldn't stop giggling afterwards. And it was all alcohol free.

I don't recall the specifics, but we uncontrollably laughed our asses off for a good hour and couldn't stop giggling afterwards. And it was all alcohol free.

How has Jena impacted your life?
She embodies that Hollensteiner clan ethos described in the 5 adjectives above, which impacted my maturing years so that maybe I'm less of a dork than I would have been otherwise!!! Thanks to all!

She embodies that Hollensteiner clan ethos described in the 5 adjectives above, which impacted my maturing years so that maybe I'm less of a dork than I would have been otherwise!!! Thanks to all!

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Moving to Barrington was stressful and at times high school was unbearable. Her friendship made all of that much more bearable. I didn't know at the time to say thanks, so here's a BLTN "THANKS!"

Moving to Barrington was stressful and at times high school was unbearable. Her friendship made all of that much more bearable. I didn't know at the time to say thanks, so here's a BLTN "THANKS!"

Jena is a special person and I feel privileged to have her in my life.

Jena is a special person and I feel privileged to have her in my life.

Where did you first meet Jena?
I first met Jena down in Rollins in 2018

I first met Jena down in Rollins in 2018

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
I would describe Jena as vivacious, organized, kind, fun loving, and lots.

I would describe Jena as vivacious, organized, kind, fun loving, and lots.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena has been supportive in my transition into the Hollensteiner family. She is inclusive and extends her love and friendship to me and my children.

Jena has been supportive in my transition into the Hollensteiner family. She is inclusive and extends her love and friendship to me and my children.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
I’m think Jena could plan any event or multiple at any time. She always creates fun in Rollins and keeps us all I formed.

I’m think Jena could plan any event or multiple at any time. She always creates fun in Rollins and keeps us all I formed.

I remember when I first met Jena and thought she was so pretty! It was a little intimidating, but it didn't take long to realize that there was so much more to Jena than a pretty face. She was friendly, funny, creative, active and smart. My experience at U of I would not have been as much fun if it weren't for Jena.

I remember when I first met Jena and thought she was so pretty! It was a little intimidating, but it didn't take long to realize that there was so much more to Jena than a pretty face. She was friendly, funny, creative, active and smart. My experience at U of I would not have been as much fun if it weren't for Jena.

Where did you first meet Jena?
I first met Jena at the dorms at U of I during new student week. Little did I know that we would be pledging the same sorority!

I first met Jena at the dorms at U of I during new student week. Little did I know that we would be pledging the same sorority!

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Funny, adventurous, compassionate, energetic and beautiful.

Funny, adventurous, compassionate, energetic and beautiful.

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Omg! So many funny memories of Jena! Hanging out at the house, eating cheese corn for dinner, making fun of Mum. Funniest memory is definitely our trip to Siesta Key and bumping into Julie Owen's parents and being told we had nice perfume on (a.k.a. weed aroma!)

Omg! So many funny memories of Jena! Hanging out at the house, eating cheese corn for dinner, making fun of Mum. Funniest memory is definitely our trip to Siesta Key and bumping into Julie Owen's parents and being told we had nice perfume on (a.k.a. weed aroma!)

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena has made such an impact on all of our lives by always being positive and inspirational! She is the Tri Delta glue that has kept of all us together and helped reunite all of us after all these years.

Jena has made such an impact on all of our lives by always being positive and inspirational! She is the Tri Delta glue that has kept of all us together and helped reunite all of us after all these years.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
We love Jena, a.k.a. Bruce as John would call her. She has grown into a role model for all of us and I truly believe that she brings out the best in all of us. Happy Birthday dear friend. Cheers to many more celebrations!

We love Jena, a.k.a. Bruce as John would call her. She has grown into a role model for all of us and I truly believe that she brings out the best in all of us. Happy Birthday dear friend. Cheers to many more celebrations!

I am Lisa Konieczka and I have had the lucky good fortune to have Jena in my life for over 23 years! We have been friends through so many life chapters and I am so grateful for her friendship!

I am Lisa Konieczka and I have had the lucky good fortune to have Jena in my life for over 23 years! We have been friends through so many life chapters and I am so grateful for her friendship!

Where did you first meet Jena?
Jena and I met through the Chicago gal pals, but our true friendship started at CBRE. Jena helped me to form the Women’s Network at CBRE and our friendship blossomed! We helped to create an environment where women can thrive at CBRE and became the best of friends along the way! We traveled the globe to Hong Kong London and Prague - danced with a Chinese Elvis, learned that Curry is a great hangover cure and found out that the zippers on Jena’s luggage weren’t very good and McVities biscuits roll quite quickly when on luggage conveyors!

Jena and I met through the Chicago gal pals, but our true friendship started at CBRE. Jena helped me to form the Women’s Network at CBRE and our friendship blossomed! We helped to create an environment where women can thrive at CBRE and became the best of friends along the way! We traveled the globe to Hong Kong London and Prague - danced with a Chinese Elvis, learned that Curry is a great hangover cure and found out that the zippers on Jena’s luggage weren’t very good and McVities biscuits roll quite quickly when on luggage conveyors!

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Funny, Kind, Loyal, Great Sounding Board and so much Fun!

Funny, Kind, Loyal, Great Sounding Board and so much Fun!

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
We have had a lot of laughs - but one of my funny memories is of Jena and her parents. We were leaving for Hong Kong soon so we went to dinner at the great restaurant Mas in Wicker Park with her parents right after Christmas. Mr Hollensteiner has gotten some new clothes for Christmas and we realized at dinner that he hadn’t taken the tags off - just in case they need to go back - just classic Jim Hollensteiner. Another great memory tha makes me laugh was when we were in Vegas at a CBRE meeting. First we both got in room massages from this guy who came to the room. Needless to say both of us were a little naive as to how wandering the massage could be!! Then Jena called a psychic (while sitting in the closet for some reason) who told her she was going to meet a guy and he was either going to be a blonde, brunette or a red head - she really thought this psychic was the ticket and that perfect guy was right around the corner - obviously it was a wide range of possibilities! Ha - she ended up marrying a gray haired man! Jena does love her psychics!

We have had a lot of laughs - but one of my funny memories is of Jena and her parents. We were leaving for Hong Kong soon so we went to dinner at the great restaurant Mas in Wicker Park with her parents right after Christmas. Mr Hollensteiner has gotten some new clothes for Christmas and we realized at dinner that he hadn’t taken the tags off - just in case they need to go back - just classic Jim Hollensteiner. Another great memory tha makes me laugh was when we were in Vegas at a CBRE meeting. First we both got in room massages from this guy who came to the room. Needless to say both of us were a little naive as to how wandering the massage could be!! Then Jena called a psychic (while sitting in the closet for some reason) who told her she was going to meet a guy and he was either going to be a blonde, brunette or a red head - she really thought this psychic was the ticket and that perfect guy was right around the corner - obviously it was a wide range of possibilities! Ha - she ended up marrying a gray haired man! Jena does love her psychics!

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena has taught me to be less serious - to laugh at myself and find joy in life’s simplest moments! To be a good friend and that good friendships can pick up mid sentence of the last time we talked as if no time has passed at all. She fills a room with her energy, but can also empty a room if she has a gas issue! She is a fierce supporter of her family and will advocate for a friend at any time! She is a GREAT friend!

Jena has taught me to be less serious - to laugh at myself and find joy in life’s simplest moments! To be a good friend and that good friendships can pick up mid sentence of the last time we talked as if no time has passed at all. She fills a room with her energy, but can also empty a room if she has a gas issue! She is a fierce supporter of her family and will advocate for a friend at any time! She is a GREAT friend!

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Jena. Never lose you joy for life, your sense of humor and your fierce loyalty to your friends. I look forward to more crazy times ahead my friend!

Jena. Never lose you joy for life, your sense of humor and your fierce loyalty to your friends. I look forward to more crazy times ahead my friend!

I met Jena through Shelley Wolfe, which how many of us met Jena

I met Jena through Shelley Wolfe, which how many of us met Jena

Where did you first meet Jena?
As I recall, I think I met Jena at the Wolfe Den.

As I recall, I think I met Jena at the Wolfe Den.

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Nurturing, caring, giving, thoughtful and animal lover.

Nurturing, caring, giving, thoughtful and animal lover.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena is always giving to others and I love her big heart.

Jena is always giving to others and I love her big heart.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Another thing that I love about Jena and I share the same love … She did a citizen class with our Police Department and she got to in the patrol car and experience a day in the life of our police.

Another thing that I love about Jena and I share the same love … She did a citizen class with our Police Department and she got to in the patrol car and experience a day in the life of our police.

Behind you, are all your memories. Before you, are all your dreams. Around you, are all who love you. Happy 60th Birthday Jean!

Behind you, are all your memories. Before you, are all your dreams. Around you, are all who love you. Happy 60th Birthday Jean!

Where did you first meet Jena?
I met Jena at Lisa condo for her annual veal stew dinner.

I met Jena at Lisa condo for her annual veal stew dinner.

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Friendly, ambitious, loyal, mischievous and silly.

Friendly, ambitious, loyal, mischievous and silly.

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
It was when I saw the gorilla imitation. I thought to myself how do we get her on TV. This is a talent that everyone needs to see.

It was when I saw the gorilla imitation. I thought to myself how do we get her on TV. This is a talent that everyone needs to see.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
You know she's up to something when she is walking away and giggling.

You know she's up to something when she is walking away and giggling.

This is my butt talking and it wants milk. Hopefully Jena will remember this...

This is my butt talking and it wants milk. Hopefully Jena will remember this...

Where did you first meet Jena?
At her house in Sauganash

At her house in Sauganash

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Goofy, Social, Energetic, Cool, Creative, Ambitious, Entertaining, Adventurous, Cubs Fan and Weird Toes

Goofy, Social, Energetic, Cool, Creative, Ambitious, Entertaining, Adventurous, Cubs Fan and Weird Toes

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Prank phone calls in Montana and making peanut butter cookies at her house

Prank phone calls in Montana and making peanut butter cookies at her house

How has Jena impacted your life?
Helped me get started in my career with Real Estate. She has always been generous and kind to us.

Helped me get started in my career with Real Estate. She has always been generous and kind to us.

Brother John. Known Jena 100% of my life

Brother John. Known Jena 100% of my life

Where did you first meet Jena?
She spoon fed me

She spoon fed me

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Caring, funny, capable, encouraging,

Caring, funny, capable, encouraging,

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Jena and I were sitting on my couch in my living room with various friends and family members and someone noticed the golf ball-sized boil I had on my ankle. I explained it was caused by my ski boots which fit too tightly. I then proposed that we “pop” it. This was met with varying degrees of skepticism, curiosity and disgust. I assured everyone I had done this before with a boil I had on my knee and that we should try it on my ankle. I disappeared into the kitchen and returned with a large rolling pin and a hard cover book. I stretched my ankle across Jena’s lap, handed her the rolling pin, placed the hard cover book atop the boil and told her to give the book a hard solid whack. Everyone stared in disbelief at the rolling pin in Jena’s hand and the book on my ankle while they anticipated who-knew-what was going to happen. What no one did notice, however, was the small plastic bag tightly filled with water hidden in my hand between my legs. I told Jena to give the book a whack. She did but it was a medium- sized whack which did nothing other than to provoke murmurs of disgust and increase the anxiety of some. I told, “No, no, no. You really have to give it a really hard hit! Don’t worry. It won’t hurt me. Hit it HARD!” She drew the rolling pin over her shoulder and crashed it down on the book. Simultaneously, I squeezed the bag of water which I had pointed directly at her face and water shot all over her face, on the windows and on walls behind her. Everyone was horrified but Jena just laughed! I think she could taste it was just water and knew me well enough that it was a prank. Everyone else was stone-cold quiet as they stared at Jena’s laughing face dripping with what they thought must be pus and at my ankle which now was absent of the boil. We laughed so hard! She was a good sport!

Jena and I were sitting on my couch in my living room with various friends and family members and someone noticed the golf ball-sized boil I had on my ankle. I explained it was caused by my ski boots which fit too tightly. I then proposed that we “pop” it. This was met with varying degrees of skepticism, curiosity and disgust. I assured everyone I had done this before with a boil I had on my knee and that we should try it on my ankle. I disappeared into the kitchen and returned with a large rolling pin and a hard cover book. I stretched my ankle across Jena’s lap, handed her the rolling pin, placed the hard cover book atop the boil and told her to give the book a hard solid whack. Everyone stared in disbelief at the rolling pin in Jena’s hand and the book on my ankle while they anticipated who-knew-what was going to happen. What no one did notice, however, was the small plastic bag tightly filled with water hidden in my hand between my legs. I told Jena to give the book a whack. She did but it was a medium- sized whack which did nothing other than to provoke murmurs of disgust and increase the anxiety of some. I told, “No, no, no. You really have to give it a really hard hit! Don’t worry. It won’t hurt me. Hit it HARD!” She drew the rolling pin over her shoulder and crashed it down on the book. Simultaneously, I squeezed the bag of water which I had pointed directly at her face and water shot all over her face, on the windows and on walls behind her. Everyone was horrified but Jena just laughed! I think she could taste it was just water and knew me well enough that it was a prank. Everyone else was stone-cold quiet as they stared at Jena’s laughing face dripping with what they thought must be pus and at my ankle which now was absent of the boil. We laughed so hard! She was a good sport!

How has Jena impacted your life?
She has taught me to have more fun and more caring to those around me.

She has taught me to have more fun and more caring to those around me.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Once you’re in Jena’ circle of friends and family, she’ll do anytime you.

Once you’re in Jena’ circle of friends and family, she’ll do anytime you.

Jena is my younger sister with the stuck together toes. She does fun and playful things with our family. Always seeking to entertain others inside and outside of our family,

Jena is my younger sister with the stuck together toes. She does fun and playful things with our family. Always seeking to entertain others inside and outside of our family,

Where did you first meet Jena?
When she was born’ed by mom.

When she was born’ed by mom.

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Dancing in go-go boots at Christmas in a pink house,

Dancing in go-go boots at Christmas in a pink house,

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Jena has a propensity to make others smile with her fun, silly or caring ways. Such as this photo of a birthday celebration with a young boy in a shelter or in the foster care system. Looking out for others.

Jena has a propensity to make others smile with her fun, silly or caring ways. Such as this photo of a birthday celebration with a young boy in a shelter or in the foster care system. Looking out for others.

Very Happy 60th Birthday! Welcome to the Club!!! You make it look fabulous!

Very Happy 60th Birthday! Welcome to the Club!!! You make it look fabulous!

Where did you first meet Jena?
At the University of Illinois. We were Tri-Delta sisters and she was in the pledge class ahead of me which means I was intimidated

At the University of Illinois. We were Tri-Delta sisters and she was in the pledge class ahead of me which means I was intimidated

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Fun, wacky, smart, beautiful and outgoing

Fun, wacky, smart, beautiful and outgoing

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Ski trips with Jena were always the best. Also, her sending "water" shots to the guys at the table next to us in MI started a VERY fun night.

Ski trips with Jena were always the best. Also, her sending "water" shots to the guys at the table next to us in MI started a VERY fun night.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena has a wonderful, joyous outlook on life which is contagious. She also understands that life can throw you a curve ball and is a great listener for her friends.

Jena has a wonderful, joyous outlook on life which is contagious. She also understands that life can throw you a curve ball and is a great listener for her friends.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Keep being you and enjoying life to the fullest!

Keep being you and enjoying life to the fullest!

My name is will and am Aunt Jenas nephew

My name is will and am Aunt Jenas nephew

Where did you first meet Jena?
I don’t remember I was just a baby

I don’t remember I was just a baby

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Fun, outgoing, enthusiastic, smart, and kind

Fun, outgoing, enthusiastic, smart, and kind

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
For my 9th birthday she took anna and I down to Florida and went to Disney world and Universal studios

For my 9th birthday she took anna and I down to Florida and went to Disney world and Universal studios

How has Jena impacted your life?
She’s been in my life ever since I was born always bringing a great fun attitude, great memory’s and just adventures that will be apart of my life forever for the better.

She’s been in my life ever since I was born always bringing a great fun attitude, great memory’s and just adventures that will be apart of my life forever for the better.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
I will just Tell another story of when it was her wedding and I was about 7 years old and before the wedding uncle jamie sent me on a mission. He wanted me to go around the whole wedding with a Whoopie cushion and so that entire night I set out getting as many people as I could with our Shanigans probably getting aunt Jena with it a few times.

I will just Tell another story of when it was her wedding and I was about 7 years old and before the wedding uncle jamie sent me on a mission. He wanted me to go around the whole wedding with a Whoopie cushion and so that entire night I set out getting as many people as I could with our Shanigans probably getting aunt Jena with it a few times.

im the niece of the lovely jena

im the niece of the lovely jena

Where did you first meet Jena?
when i was born

when i was born

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
funny, crazy, kind, caring, affectionate

funny, crazy, kind, caring, affectionate

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
going to universal with her during my 10th b-day

going to universal with her during my 10th b-day

How has Jena impacted your life?
by always making me feel included

by always making me feel included

What else would you like to share about Jena?
shes the coolest

shes the coolest

I first saw a picture of Jena in Jamie's dorm room -- and, I thought it was his girlfriend back home, since there was very little resemblance. I really got to know Jena when she came out to work with Jamie and me at Many Glacier Hotel in Glacier Park. During that summer, we hiked Piegan Pass, ate Snickers, and spent a lot of time in the bar where both Jamie and Jena worked. Jena has been a great family person, she was our go-to for watching Logan and Connor over weekends, she took the kids to Cubs games, gave them Jena juice (pop), and always showed up for the big events (graduation). She is an amazing aunt. Jena is incredibly organized with sponsoring family parties, is really fun to be around, and does an amazing chimpanzee or gorilla dance.

I first saw a picture of Jena in Jamie's dorm room -- and, I thought it was his girlfriend back home, since there was very little resemblance. I really got to know Jena when she came out to work with Jamie and me at Many Glacier Hotel in Glacier Park. During that summer, we hiked Piegan Pass, ate Snickers, and spent a lot of time in the bar where both Jamie and Jena worked. Jena has been a great family person, she was our go-to for watching Logan and Connor over weekends, she took the kids to Cubs games, gave them Jena juice (pop), and always showed up for the big events (graduation). She is an amazing aunt. Jena is incredibly organized with sponsoring family parties, is really fun to be around, and does an amazing chimpanzee or gorilla dance.

Where did you first meet Jena?
I met her at 186 Kimberly at a family dinner

I met her at 186 Kimberly at a family dinner

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Lively, fun, organized, helpful, sociable

Lively, fun, organized, helpful, sociable

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Her gorilla dancing or her drum playing at bars, parties or events

Her gorilla dancing or her drum playing at bars, parties or events

How has Jena impacted your life?
She has enabled so many great memories -- with her annual family party games, kid-like humor (pranks and conversation), she has created a lot of joy

She has enabled so many great memories -- with her annual family party games, kid-like humor (pranks and conversation), she has created a lot of joy

Happiest 60th Birthday, dearest Jena!! Welcome to the 60 Club! You look fabulous at every age!! A beauty through and through!

Happiest 60th Birthday, dearest Jena!! Welcome to the 60 Club! You look fabulous at every age!! A beauty through and through!

Where did you first meet Jena?
I first met Jena through our mutual dear friend Shelley Wolf over a decade ago. Shelley couldn't wait for me to meet her best friend from college. Shelley knew that anyone who met Jena would instantly love her and she was right!!

I first met Jena through our mutual dear friend Shelley Wolf over a decade ago. Shelley couldn't wait for me to meet her best friend from college. Shelley knew that anyone who met Jena would instantly love her and she was right!!

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
5 adjectives to describe Jena are 1. Big hearted 2. Hilarious with a hearty laugh 3. Has a can-do attitude 4. Brilliant 5. A friend for the ages

5 adjectives to describe Jena are 1. Big hearted 2. Hilarious with a hearty laugh 3. Has a can-do attitude 4. Brilliant 5. A friend for the ages

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
I can't help but smile when I think of Jena. She could make me laugh at a drop of a hat with her laughter because it is so contagious.

I can't help but smile when I think of Jena. She could make me laugh at a drop of a hat with her laughter because it is so contagious.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena is one of those people that you will never forget! She has a kind of genuine warmth that transmits with every encounter. My parents even fell in love with her upon first meeting her and were baffled that a beautiful bright girl wasn't married yet. Ha!! They were so happy to know that she finally married her soul mate after 50! I don't see her enough, but when I do it always feels like sunshine!! Both Stuart and I love her so much!

Jena is one of those people that you will never forget! She has a kind of genuine warmth that transmits with every encounter. My parents even fell in love with her upon first meeting her and were baffled that a beautiful bright girl wasn't married yet. Ha!! They were so happy to know that she finally married her soul mate after 50! I don't see her enough, but when I do it always feels like sunshine!! Both Stuart and I love her so much!

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Jena, you are so worthy of celebrating!! Enjoy this time and this year to the fullest! You are a beautiful soul and a blessing to me!! Thank you for being in my life!

Jena, you are so worthy of celebrating!! Enjoy this time and this year to the fullest! You are a beautiful soul and a blessing to me!! Thank you for being in my life!

HAPPY HAPPY 60TH BIRTHDAY JENA! I wish I could celebrate you in person, but I'm sending you all my love and good wishes here. Somehow I know you will have a rip-roaring time (I think that sounds like something a Montana cowgirl would say...)

HAPPY HAPPY 60TH BIRTHDAY JENA! I wish I could celebrate you in person, but I'm sending you all my love and good wishes here. Somehow I know you will have a rip-roaring time (I think that sounds like something a Montana cowgirl would say...)

Where did you first meet Jena?
I don't remember exactly when we met, it was sometime in the 90s in Chicago through our many mutual friends - Holly, Lisa, and Jill, to name a few. I got to know Jena better at countless house parties, Cubs games, bars, and girls' trips. She's a wonderful friend!

I don't remember exactly when we met, it was sometime in the 90s in Chicago through our many mutual friends - Holly, Lisa, and Jill, to name a few. I got to know Jena better at countless house parties, Cubs games, bars, and girls' trips. She's a wonderful friend!

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Fun-loving, Adventurous, Devoted, Caring, and Nutty in the best, funniest way!

Fun-loving, Adventurous, Devoted, Caring, and Nutty in the best, funniest way!

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
One memory that stands out was during Cubs Spring Training in Phoenix (Barb Jones' Birthday trip). We were having post-game drinks, and Jena burst into her Orangutan (or is it a Chimpanzee?) imitation for the whole bar. I'd never seen this before, though our other girlfriends assured me that this imitation was a Jena Classic. I've got to admit, it's not only funny but pretty accurate as well.

One memory that stands out was during Cubs Spring Training in Phoenix (Barb Jones' Birthday trip). We were having post-game drinks, and Jena burst into her Orangutan (or is it a Chimpanzee?) imitation for the whole bar. I'd never seen this before, though our other girlfriends assured me that this imitation was a Jena Classic. I've got to admit, it's not only funny but pretty accurate as well.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena inspires me to live life to the fullest and take chances - she's a shining example of really embracing whatever comes along and always finding the sunny side of any situation. Jena is a great reminder that laughter really is the best medicine!

Jena inspires me to live life to the fullest and take chances - she's a shining example of really embracing whatever comes along and always finding the sunny side of any situation. Jena is a great reminder that laughter really is the best medicine!

What else would you like to share about Jena?
I'll always appreciate our girls' trip to Montana in 07. Jena was so generous to share Flathead Lake with all of us. Such a special place, and a wonderful chance to get to know Wanda and Big Jim and and enjoy the beautiful mountains and lake. And we added to the memories when our flights were canceled and we painted the old station wagon for a demolition derby. Going to a real rodeo and demo derby was a first for me! I also admire Jena's giving spirit and her big heart - I don't think there's anything that she wouldn't do for her family, her friends, and -of course - her dogs. Love you Jena!

I'll always appreciate our girls' trip to Montana in 07. Jena was so generous to share Flathead Lake with all of us. Such a special place, and a wonderful chance to get to know Wanda and Big Jim and and enjoy the beautiful mountains and lake. And we added to the memories when our flights were canceled and we painted the old station wagon for a demolition derby. Going to a real rodeo and demo derby was a first for me! I also admire Jena's giving spirit and her big heart - I don't think there's anything that she wouldn't do for her family, her friends, and -of course - her dogs. Love you Jena!

Cubs Game -- Can't remember what year!!

Cubs Game -- Can't remember what year!!

Where did you first meet Jena?
AT DDD U of I -- I think it was in the pansy pit or the delta beach

AT DDD U of I -- I think it was in the pansy pit or the delta beach

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Daring Bold Funny Courageous Strong Loyal (I think that is more than 5)

Daring Bold Funny Courageous Strong Loyal (I think that is more than 5)

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Scream calling, every day is a fun adventure with Jena

Scream calling, every day is a fun adventure with Jena

How has Jena impacted your life?
Always ready for an adventure and always there for her friends

Always ready for an adventure and always there for her friends

What else would you like to share about Jena?
How much time do you have? She's the best one!

How much time do you have? She's the best one!

My memories of Jena are always funny and make me laugh. I can't remember an evening or weekend spent with Jena whether in Chicago, Union Pier, Siesta Key, Nashville or Montana that there were not multiple laugh out loud moments. Lots of mischievous behavior!

My memories of Jena are always funny and make me laugh. I can't remember an evening or weekend spent with Jena whether in Chicago, Union Pier, Siesta Key, Nashville or Montana that there were not multiple laugh out loud moments. Lots of mischievous behavior!

Where did you first meet Jena?
Draper and Kramer

Draper and Kramer

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Loyal, joyful, generous, kind, adventurous

Loyal, joyful, generous, kind, adventurous

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Far too many to list. There was one time in Michigan where she was on the dance floor slapping all the young men on their butts.

Far too many to list. There was one time in Michigan where she was on the dance floor slapping all the young men on their butts.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Her presence reminds me to try to be a kinder person.

Her presence reminds me to try to be a kinder person.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
If the world were full of Jena's it would be a much nicer place!

If the world were full of Jena's it would be a much nicer place!

There was something about the parking lot at Midnight Cove, but I think I forgot about it already.

There was something about the parking lot at Midnight Cove, but I think I forgot about it already.

Where did you first meet Jena?
508 Chalmers, Champaign at the TriDelta House

508 Chalmers, Champaign at the TriDelta House

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Fun, Adventurous, Generous, Family-Oriented, Compassionate

Fun, Adventurous, Generous, Family-Oriented, Compassionate

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
I remember when we were living at TriDelts at U of I and I was sleeping after happy hour. Jena came to my room with Susan Katz and woke me up to go out that night. I didn't want to go but ended up having a great time. Jena always brings the FUN!

I remember when we were living at TriDelts at U of I and I was sleeping after happy hour. Jena came to my room with Susan Katz and woke me up to go out that night. I didn't want to go but ended up having a great time. Jena always brings the FUN!

How has Jena impacted your life?
I love hearing about all of Jena's crazy stories, especially the fun and loving memories that she shared with social media about her adventures with her mom. Nothing Jena does could surprise me; even her flying. She has motivated me to be more adventurous in life. Carpe Diem - you have only one life to live and it should be fun!

I love hearing about all of Jena's crazy stories, especially the fun and loving memories that she shared with social media about her adventures with her mom. Nothing Jena does could surprise me; even her flying. She has motivated me to be more adventurous in life. Carpe Diem - you have only one life to live and it should be fun!

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Jena is beautiful but also humble and she makes people feel happier when she is around them - that would be her superpower.

Jena is beautiful but also humble and she makes people feel happier when she is around them - that would be her superpower.

The Hollensteiner’s through Jena have really changed my life through a lot, not forgetting the big man himself Jim 😂

The Hollensteiner’s through Jena have really changed my life through a lot, not forgetting the big man himself Jim 😂

Where did you first meet Jena?
Barrington Illinois

Barrington Illinois

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Fun, entertaining, amazing, always giving,

Fun, entertaining, amazing, always giving,

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Fishing in Siesta key with Pend as well.

Fishing in Siesta key with Pend as well.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Giving me this job to take care of father Jim is unforgettable moment.

Giving me this job to take care of father Jim is unforgettable moment.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Nice person to be around with and no dull moments at all 😂

Nice person to be around with and no dull moments at all 😂

Circa 1999. I might have been overserved and disorderly after a Cubs game at Murphy's. Jena was trying to convince the Channel 5 News cameramen to take me home in their van. She did manage to charm them enough to let me sit in the van for a while. (Thank goodness there were no mobile phone cameras or social media back then.) After she had her giggles, she made sure I had money and sent me home in a cab.

Circa 1999. I might have been overserved and disorderly after a Cubs game at Murphy's. Jena was trying to convince the Channel 5 News cameramen to take me home in their van. She did manage to charm them enough to let me sit in the van for a while. (Thank goodness there were no mobile phone cameras or social media back then.) After she had her giggles, she made sure I had money and sent me home in a cab.

Where did you first meet Jena?
Four Farthings. Fall 1998

Four Farthings. Fall 1998

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Generous, Goofy, Adventurous, Fun, Forgiving & daily double bonus word: Beautiful (inside and out)

Generous, Goofy, Adventurous, Fun, Forgiving & daily double bonus word: Beautiful (inside and out)

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Splits. Maxi pads on van. Rock star parking karma. Cartwheels in the meadow. Late night dance parties. Sleepovers. Cliff jumping. Talk & Walks/Hikes. Yo Bear! In home massages. Cubs Bleachers. Her laugh. Binge shopping. Practical jokes. Sneaky. Spiritual healings. Rockin those legs in Daisy Dukes. Summer street festivals. Cabo Wabo. Impromptu wedding band drummer.
Cheers Big Ears!

Splits. Maxi pads on van. Rock star parking karma. Cartwheels in the meadow. Late night dance parties. Sleepovers. Cliff jumping. Talk & Walks/Hikes. Yo Bear! In home massages. Cubs Bleachers. Her laugh. Binge shopping. Practical jokes. Sneaky. Spiritual healings. Rockin those legs in Daisy Dukes. Summer street festivals. Cabo Wabo. Impromptu wedding band drummer. <br /> Cheers Big Ears!

How has Jena impacted your life?
So many fun times and shenanigans! Was the very first person to call me when I shared some bad news. I love her and cherish our friendship.

So many fun times and shenanigans! Was the very first person to call me when I shared some bad news. I love her and cherish our friendship.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Jena is an wonderful dichotomy. The best ratio of sophistication and down to earth, angel and rascal, ambitious and laid back, logical and creative, headstrong and gentle, open minded and opinionated, proper and misbehaving.
I admire Jena. She has worked hard to have a career, makes a huge effort to keep in touch with so many friends since she was young, the life she has built in Nashville with Pend, her love & friendship with his children. She looks beyond misgivings and sees the good deep down in people but she is very honest about what she expects in you as a person/friend. She has a unique spiritual outlook to the world and is committed to continuing the legacies of her parents and family in Montana. Her no regrets feelings about the decision she made and the gift of time she had giving a high level of compassionate care to her mom and has now for her dad is amazing.

Jena is an wonderful dichotomy. The best ratio of sophistication and down to earth, angel and rascal, ambitious and laid back, logical and creative, headstrong and gentle, open minded and opinionated, proper and misbehaving. <br /> I admire Jena. She has worked hard to have a career, makes a huge effort to keep in touch with so many friends since she was young, the life she has built in Nashville with Pend, her love & friendship with his children. She looks beyond misgivings and sees the good deep down in people but she is very honest about what she expects in you as a person/friend. She has a unique spiritual outlook to the world and is committed to continuing the legacies of her parents and family in Montana. Her no regrets feelings about the decision she made and the gift of time she had giving a high level of compassionate care to her mom and has now for her dad is amazing.

I met Jena through my wife Robin over 30 years ago. Since Jena & Pend were married, we've been hanging out much more. It is always an adventure filled with laughs, projects, dogs, mayhem and good food.

I met Jena through my wife Robin over 30 years ago. Since Jena & Pend were married, we've been hanging out much more. It is always an adventure filled with laughs, projects, dogs, mayhem and good food.

Where did you first meet Jena?
Chicago

Chicago

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Loyal, caring, adventurous, funny, humble, giving = loving

Loyal, caring, adventurous, funny, humble, giving = loving

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Every time Robin & Jena become the "Gummy Gals"!!

Every time Robin & Jena become the "Gummy Gals"!!

How has Jena impacted your life?
In addition to all the fun times, Jena went above and beyond to help guide Robin and me through some of our darkest days. Her gentle spirit and wisdom was a beacon in the darkness. Thank you is not enough for all you did during that difficult time.

In addition to all the fun times, Jena went above and beyond to help guide Robin and me through some of our darkest days. Her gentle spirit and wisdom was a beacon in the darkness. Thank you is not enough for all you did during that difficult time.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Jena & Pend, I feel truly blessed to call you friend(s) and appreciate sharing life with you. I always look forward to our time together. Love Ya!

Jena & Pend, I feel truly blessed to call you friend(s) and appreciate sharing life with you. I always look forward to our time together. Love Ya!

I feel blessed to have known you more than half my life.

I feel blessed to have known you more than half my life.

Where did you first meet Jena?
Tri-Delta

Tri-Delta

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Caring
Honest
Connector
Forgiving
Funny

Caring <br /> Honest<br /> Connector<br /> Forgiving<br /> Funny

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
When I think of Jena, I always think of her laughing, and usually one eye will be half shut. The laughter is so TJ a ton of friends that she has collected along the way and has made an impact on all of them.

When I think of Jena, I always think of her laughing, and usually one eye will be half shut. The laughter is so TJ a ton of friends that she has collected along the way and has made an impact on all of them.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena taught me to be honest about my feelings and to always open up communications when there are issues.

Jena taught me to be honest about my feelings and to always open up communications when there are issues.

Jena the Fun Star!

Jena the Fun Star!

Where did you first meet Jena?
I met Jena on our ski trip to Sun Valley Idaho. We got pulled over for speeding by a funny little trooper who clearly had never met four city girls with the excuse of discussing Sex and the City for our reason for not realizing we were speeding.

I knew she was going to be a friend for life when she marched, completely confident, across the street to convince our neighbors they needed to let us use their hot tub. The rest is history!

I met Jena on our ski trip to Sun Valley Idaho. We got pulled over for speeding by a funny little trooper who clearly had never met four city girls with the excuse of discussing Sex and the City for our reason for not realizing we were speeding. <br /> <br /> I knew she was going to be a friend for life when she marched, completely confident, across the street to convince our neighbors they needed to let us use their hot tub. The rest is history!

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Confident. Fearless. Trusted. Passionate. Goofball.

Confident. Fearless. Trusted. Passionate. Goofball.

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Too many to pick one but a few that stand out are her prank phone calls and pictures of friends sleeping that get sent randomly.

Too many to pick one but a few that stand out are her prank phone calls and pictures of friends sleeping that get sent randomly.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Just having her in my life is a gift. Knowing she’s there if I need her. Her confidence is contagious. And I’ve become a better prankster.

Just having her in my life is a gift. Knowing she’s there if I need her. Her confidence is contagious. And I’ve become a better prankster.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
It’s a better planet with her on it.

It’s a better planet with her on it.

Happy happy sweet 60th dear Jena! Welcome to the club ❤️

Happy happy sweet 60th dear Jena! Welcome to the club ❤️

Where did you first meet Jena?
Many many moons ago and we became the best of friends at BHS

Many many moons ago and we became the best of friends at BHS

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Loyal, generous, kind, goofy and fun

Loyal, generous, kind, goofy and fun

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
I’ve got some humdingers, but one I’ll never forget happened at U of Illinois. Jena and I were roomies and one day she decided she wants to get a perm. She begged and begged me to get one too and I kept saying no…it’ll look terrible on me! Jena is really really good at convincing you to do something and usually it sounds like it’s going to be so fun…so I ended up giving in. We went to the salon and were seated at opposite ends…the gal was pretty much finished with mine when all of a sudden Jena is standing behind me. She looks pretty guilty and begins giggling. I was like…oh no! And she said…yup…my hair’s too dry and I can’t get a perm…sorry Krusty! I feel like that perm lasted at least 6 months…it was not a good look! To this day, when I see photos of me from that time I cringe and have to laugh out loud!

I’ve got some humdingers, but one I’ll never forget happened at U of Illinois. Jena and I were roomies and one day she decided she wants to get a perm. She begged and begged me to get one too and I kept saying no…it’ll look terrible on me! Jena is really really good at convincing you to do something and usually it sounds like it’s going to be so fun…so I ended up giving in. We went to the salon and were seated at opposite ends…the gal was pretty much finished with mine when all of a sudden Jena is standing behind me. She looks pretty guilty and begins giggling. I was like…oh no! And she said…yup…my hair’s too dry and I can’t get a perm…sorry Krusty! I feel like that perm lasted at least 6 months…it was not a good look! To this day, when I see photos of me from that time I cringe and have to laugh out loud!

How has Jena impacted your life?
Our friendship means the world to me! Just hearing Jena’s infectious laugh…makes me laugh! Thanks to her…I’ve always been able to see the humor in most situations and I don’t take myself too seriously!

Our friendship means the world to me! Just hearing Jena’s infectious laugh…makes me laugh! Thanks to her…I’ve always been able to see the humor in most situations and I don’t take myself too seriously!

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Even though we laugh a lot and are pretty silly when we’re together…I know she’s always got my back and I always have hers! Love you my friend❤️

Even though we laugh a lot and are pretty silly when we’re together…I know she’s always got my back and I always have hers! Love you my friend❤️

Jena. Happy birthday. I love you. I will continue to be that friend who gets it a little off- sent my story early. Thanks for loving me!!

Jena. Happy birthday. I love you. I will continue to be that friend who gets it a little off- sent my story early. Thanks for loving me!!

Where did you first meet Jena?
It was the early 1990s in San Francisco. Jena moved to Betsy’s apartment and we became fast friends. It turned out we had several friends in common who attended U of I. Although Jena lived in San Franscisco a short time. Our friendship was sealed with adventure and fun. We were sisters form other mothers. Friends from Chicago who never knew each other while living in Chicago!

It was the early 1990s in San Francisco. Jena moved to Betsy’s apartment and we became fast friends. It turned out we had several friends in common who attended U of I. Although Jena lived in San Franscisco a short time. Our friendship was sealed with adventure and fun. We were sisters form other mothers. Friends from Chicago who never knew each other while living in Chicago!

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Beautiful, fun, persuasive, adventuresome, sneaky, community-service-oriented, reliable, lovey-dovey-deary! Joyful and an ability to laugh at herself and at all awkward moments in life!

Beautiful, fun, persuasive, adventuresome, sneaky, community-service-oriented, reliable, lovey-dovey-deary! Joyful and an ability to laugh at herself and at all awkward moments in life!

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Instructing all the girls in our Las Vegas elevator to turn around so the door would open to our cute butts!

Sending lyric to Old Montana to sing to her father so we could receive a ride to the ranch

Reintroducing her to a friend and hearing about how she was serenaded by an unwanted suitor at the dorms at U of I. Such a small world!

Posing at Cynthia Rowley’s runway show as if the cameras were on us!

Instructing all the girls in our Las Vegas elevator to turn around so the door would open to our cute butts!<br /> <br /> Sending lyric to Old Montana to sing to her father so we could receive a ride to the ranch<br /> <br /> Reintroducing her to a friend and hearing about how she was serenaded by an unwanted suitor at the dorms at U of I. Such a small world!<br /> <br /> Posing at Cynthia Rowley’s runway show as if the cameras were on us!

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena is just plain fun. She is a great organizer of groups and has introduced me to some very interesting people. She is trustworthy, authentic and a true confidant. I have always felt she wants the best for me and all her friends. She is hard working, and you can always count on her to give more than the minimum to whatever she starts. Jena inspires me and she makes me laugh out loud. She warms my heart, and I can feel her love whenever I talk with her. Sometimes I see God’s light shining right through her to me! I count myself lucky to know her.

At one time or another Jana has helped employ a good number of members my large family. She can network and connect people like no one else.

Jena is just plain fun. She is a great organizer of groups and has introduced me to some very interesting people. She is trustworthy, authentic and a true confidant. I have always felt she wants the best for me and all her friends. She is hard working, and you can always count on her to give more than the minimum to whatever she starts. Jena inspires me and she makes me laugh out loud. She warms my heart, and I can feel her love whenever I talk with her. Sometimes I see God’s light shining right through her to me! I count myself lucky to know her.<br /> <br /> At one time or another Jana has helped employ a good number of members my large family. She can network and connect people like no one else.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
She is a rascal and a practical joker. She is a free spirit, just get her singing and dancing. When she makes decisions, she has high morals and looks for the right and just choice. Jena is a good person, all around.

She is a rascal and a practical joker. She is a free spirit, just get her singing and dancing. When she makes decisions, she has high morals and looks for the right and just choice. Jena is a good person, all around.

I met Jena when I was the new kid, just moved to Barrington from North Carolina. We were 15 years old and instant friends.

I met Jena when I was the new kid, just moved to Barrington from North Carolina. We were 15 years old and instant friends.

Where did you first meet Jena?
At the start of our junior year at Barrington high school

At the start of our junior year at Barrington high school

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Joyful
Gorgeous
Spirited
Generous
Goofy

Joyful<br /> Gorgeous<br /> Spirited<br /> Generous<br /> Goofy

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Skinny dipping (well, in our undies) in Honey Lake in mixed company. Fortunately it was dark.

Sitting in my parents’ basement sauna, eating poofer pellets, and singing “Somebody’s gonna hurt someone” (Gonna be a heartache tonight) and snorting with laughter at nothing and everything, as only teenage girls can do.

Skinny dipping (well, in our undies) in Honey Lake in mixed company. Fortunately it was dark.<br /> <br /> Sitting in my parents’ basement sauna, eating poofer pellets, and singing “Somebody’s gonna hurt someone” (Gonna be a heartache tonight) and snorting with laughter at nothing and everything, as only teenage girls can do.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena leads the way in building community wherever she goes. I am forever grateful to be in Jena’s lifelong circle!

Jena leads the way in building community wherever she goes. I am forever grateful to be in Jena’s lifelong circle!

What else would you like to share about Jena?
She is the most loving and level headed woman I know.

She is the most loving and level headed woman I know.

I met Jena when i pledged Tri-Delta at University of Illinois in the fall of 1982. She was so funny and absolutely beautiful...and then I found out she was from a town just a few miles from me. We had a lot in common, always looking for the FUN to be had in life!

I met Jena when i pledged Tri-Delta at University of Illinois in the fall of 1982. She was so funny and absolutely beautiful...and then I found out she was from a town just a few miles from me. We had a lot in common, always looking for the FUN to be had in life!

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Goofy, original, fun-loving, generous, loyal, hilarious...can't do just 5!

Goofy, original, fun-loving, generous, loyal, hilarious...can't do just 5!

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
She trusted me to bleach-blond her hair in college. That was a mistake I'll never be able to make up to her. LOL! We also had a funny and memorable weekend getaway at DePauw visiting her brother.

She trusted me to bleach-blond her hair in college. That was a mistake I'll never be able to make up to her. LOL! We also had a funny and memorable weekend getaway at DePauw visiting her brother.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena is a forever friend 💗

Jena is a forever friend 💗

To an amazing, fun and smart lady - who would ever guess is having a 60th birthday party? Looking great as always!!!
Has a beautiful voice, in serious meetings or for fun can...... get the whole room laughing. She can ramp the end of the Happy Birthday song like no other. Is a true friend, genuine......and a real help always.

To an amazing, fun and smart lady - who would ever guess is having a 60th birthday party? Looking great as always!!!<br /> Has a beautiful voice, in serious meetings or for fun can...... get the whole room laughing. She can ramp the end of the Happy Birthday song like no other. Is a true friend, genuine......and a real help always.

Where did you first meet Jena?
At Robins house in Chicago helping to do dishes. We had a Mary Kay mud masking party. It never have been the same without Jena. We all had black faces and walked the block (mid-night stroll).

At Robins house in Chicago helping to do dishes. We had a Mary Kay mud masking party. It never have been the same without Jena. We all had black faces and walked the block (mid-night stroll).

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Smart, beautiful, fun genuine and a HOOT!!!

Smart, beautiful, fun genuine and a HOOT!!!

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
Pushed Robin in the water at Flathead Lake because Robin pushed others in.

Pushed Robin in the water at Flathead Lake because Robin pushed others in.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Shared times at her properties at Flathead Lake and made me feel like part of the family.

Shared times at her properties at Flathead Lake and made me feel like part of the family.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
She loves her dogs. It is a privilege to know and be with her. She's a caring and sharing person.

She loves her dogs. It is a privilege to know and be with her. She's a caring and sharing person.

I am thrilled to be a part of this tribute celebrating Jena’s 60th birthday.
To my dear friend Jena, I am honored to have known you for 45+ years and to have our friendship which I treasure so much. I wish you a very happy birthday filled with all the love, joy and happiness your heart can hold. Love you my friend and l look forward to more great memories in the future. Waldie

I am thrilled to be a part of this tribute celebrating Jena’s 60th birthday. <br /> To my dear friend Jena, I am honored to have known you for 45+ years and to have our friendship which I treasure so much. I wish you a very happy birthday filled with all the love, joy and happiness your heart can hold. Love you my friend and l look forward to more great memories in the future. Waldie

Where did you first meet Jena?
Jena and I first met at Salem United Methodist Church in Barrington where we were in confirmation class together. We were probably in seventh or eighth grade, perhaps 1976 or 1977. We both attended Barrington high school and University of Illinois where we were sorority sisters.

Jena and I first met at Salem United Methodist Church in Barrington where we were in confirmation class together. We were probably in seventh or eighth grade, perhaps 1976 or 1977. We both attended Barrington high school and University of Illinois where we were sorority sisters.

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
I would describe Jena as loyal, adventurous, charitable, magnetic, and kind.

I would describe Jena as loyal, adventurous, charitable, magnetic, and kind.

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
The first memory that comes to mind is when Jena, Kerstin and I were at Baker’s Square restaurant in Palatine Illinois and JENA started a pie fight.
I have countless memories when Jena would instigate making crank phone calls to people. This is something she did when we were teenagers as well as when we were adults!!!
She is always performing practical jokes on people, I am just thankful I have never been a recipient!!

The first memory that comes to mind is when Jena, Kerstin and I were at Baker’s Square restaurant in Palatine Illinois and JENA started a pie fight. <br /> I have countless memories when Jena would instigate making crank phone calls to people. This is something she did when we were teenagers as well as when we were adults!!!<br /> She is always performing practical jokes on people, I am just thankful I have never been a recipient!!

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena’s loyalty and dedication to her family and friends is unwavering. She has gone above and beyond to help others with her kindness and charitable gifts. I can only imagine her contact list because she is so well liked and has so many friends. Jena has always been adventurous and lives life to the fullest and makes sure ‘Fun’ is a part of every day life. She has a magnetic personality that draws people to her. Her energy, willingness to make this world a better place and generosity are evident in her daily life.

Jena’s loyalty and dedication to her family and friends is unwavering. She has gone above and beyond to help others with her kindness and charitable gifts. I can only imagine her contact list because she is so well liked and has so many friends. Jena has always been adventurous and lives life to the fullest and makes sure ‘Fun’ is a part of every day life. She has a magnetic personality that draws people to her. Her energy, willingness to make this world a better place and generosity are evident in her daily life.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Jena is one of a kind who is a gift to all of us who call her friend. She is truly a blessing in my life.

Jena is one of a kind who is a gift to all of us who call her friend. She is truly a blessing in my life.

Here's to a wonderful 60th birthday celebration for a wonderful friend!

Here's to a wonderful 60th birthday celebration for a wonderful friend!

Where did you first meet Jena?
A neighborly visit, probably a dog connection!

A neighborly visit, probably a dog connection!

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Lively, Generous, Loyal, Witty, Kind

Lively, Generous, Loyal, Witty, Kind

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena you have inspired me to be more giving of time, energy and resources to important causes. You impress me so with your ambition and care! In addition, creating a sense of community in our little West Meade Park neighborhood is no small endeavor! Many neighbors of 20-30 plus years met one another for the first time due to yours (and Pend's) hospitality. And, Jena, you know how to have a good time and you remind me to not take life so seriously and have fun!

Jena you have inspired me to be more giving of time, energy and resources to important causes. You impress me so with your ambition and care! In addition, creating a sense of community in our little West Meade Park neighborhood is no small endeavor! Many neighbors of 20-30 plus years met one another for the first time due to yours (and Pend's) hospitality. And, Jena, you know how to have a good time and you remind me to not take life so seriously and have fun!

Dear Jena,

On your special day we want to express our heartfelt wishes for a very special birthday! Your presence in our family has brought so much love and joy, and we are grateful for the care and support you've given us. May your day be filled with laughter, love and wonderful moments. Happy 60th!!! We Love You! Can't wait to celebrate with you soon! Scott, Natalie and Sarah

Dear Jena, <br /> <br /> On your special day we want to express our heartfelt wishes for a very special birthday! Your presence in our family has brought so much love and joy, and we are grateful for the care and support you've given us. May your day be filled with laughter, love and wonderful moments. Happy 60th!!! We Love You! Can't wait to celebrate with you soon! Scott, Natalie and Sarah

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Bright, Thoughtful, Confident, Passionate, Energetic

Bright, Thoughtful, Confident, Passionate, Energetic

How has Jena impacted your life?
On this day, we want to celebrate not only your birthday but also the incredible person you are. Thank you for being a remarkable step mom and for making such a positive impact on our lives.

On this day, we want to celebrate not only your birthday but also the incredible person you are. Thank you for being a remarkable step mom and for making such a positive impact on our lives.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
We hit the "bonus mom" jackpot, love you!!!

We hit the "bonus mom" jackpot, love you!!!

We met while working at Draper & Kramer in the early 90’s, what clinched our friendship was the corporate outing on a party bus to a Milwaukee Baseball game. Jena put Mary Spellman's name tags on everyone, brought her penis-butter cookies and shocked the group by winning the dirty joke contest, not innocent Jena! This is where we discovered our Montana Connection and we have been partners in crime, pranksters, renovation hero’s and friends ever since.

We met while working at Draper & Kramer in the early 90’s, what clinched our friendship was the corporate outing on a party bus to a Milwaukee Baseball game. Jena put Mary Spellman's name tags on everyone, brought her penis-butter cookies and shocked the group by winning the dirty joke contest, not innocent Jena! This is where we discovered our Montana Connection and we have been partners in crime, pranksters, renovation hero’s and friends ever since.

Where did you first meet Jena?
Draper & Kramer, 33 W Monroe which is also where the DK Gals began our friendships, starting with our group lunch then extending to other outings and eventually Gal Pal weekends to Michigan, Florida and Montana for Jena’s wedding.

Draper & Kramer, 33 W Monroe which is also where the DK Gals began our friendships, starting with our group lunch then extending to other outings and eventually Gal Pal weekends to Michigan, Florida and Montana for Jena’s wedding.

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Genuine
Positive
Generous
Art-of-Delegation
Inspirational/Role-model

Genuine<br /> Positive<br /> Generous <br /> Art-of-Delegation<br /> Inspirational/Role-model

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
There are so many it is hard to know where to begin …. So here are a few:
- Mexico: While enjoying a welcome Mojito at a remote luxury resort lobby the valets walk by with our cheapo styrofoam coolers and grocery bagged snacky treats & of course wine as we try holding in a belly laugh; spying on who we thought was a high paid worker, friended the next day; bar tending, Sweet Home Alabama
-Green Leather Couch Negotiation
-Cabinet Discount after it accidentally dropped off the cart
- Thrifty Discounting; wheeling and dealing.
-Skilled Prankster Example: Called a B&B as Dorthy asking to hold the Happy Hour because we were running late and heard the appetizers were amazing, Dorothy and Lora checking in before us!
-Doobie Dave: uncontrollable Laughter
…..and many, many more

There are so many it is hard to know where to begin …. So here are a few:<br /> - Mexico: While enjoying a welcome Mojito at a remote luxury resort lobby the valets walk by with our cheapo styrofoam coolers and grocery bagged snacky treats & of course wine as we try holding in a belly laugh; spying on who we thought was a high paid worker, friended the next day; bar tending, Sweet Home Alabama<br /> -Green Leather Couch Negotiation<br /> -Cabinet Discount after it accidentally dropped off the cart<br /> - Thrifty Discounting; wheeling and dealing.<br /> -Skilled Prankster Example: Called a B&B as Dorthy asking to hold the Happy Hour because we were running late and heard the appetizers were amazing, Dorothy and Lora checking in before us! <br /> -Doobie Dave: uncontrollable Laughter<br /> …..and many, many more

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena is that friend that makes you a better person. She always brings out the best in me! She brings that ray of sunshine and fun-filled spirit. We have so many memories of laughter, crazy adventures and a safe haven if I ever need a shoulder to cry on. She is definitely my Soul-Sister, and has helped me through heavy-hearted times and lifted me up with her compassion, can-do positive attitude and friendship. I love that I am part of Jena’s circle of friends, and she has a-lot of them!

Jena is that friend that makes you a better person. She always brings out the best in me! She brings that ray of sunshine and fun-filled spirit. We have so many memories of laughter, crazy adventures and a safe haven if I ever need a shoulder to cry on. She is definitely my Soul-Sister, and has helped me through heavy-hearted times and lifted me up with her compassion, can-do positive attitude and friendship. I love that I am part of Jena’s circle of friends, and she has a-lot of them!

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Jena has been an amazingly awesome friend and legacy DK Gal-Pal, here's to the countless years of friendship whose memories have had us smiling, laughing, singing, and crying. You have been a rock in my life, and I am endlessly grateful for you. May this year be the start of an even more amazing chapter. I know you are turning 60, but together we are 30 in our hearts. Cheers, "big ears," to more memories of fun-shine moments, crazy projects together, wheeling & dealing, stargazing, road trips, and absolutely many, many more years of friendship and happenstance adventures! Happy 60th birthday, Jena! You have been an immeasurable blessing to both Bill and me, and Pend, you are the bonus blessing! We love you both! Happy 60th Birthday!

Jena has been an amazingly awesome friend and legacy DK Gal-Pal, here's to the countless years of friendship whose memories have had us smiling, laughing, singing, and crying. You have been a rock in my life, and I am endlessly grateful for you. May this year be the start of an even more amazing chapter. I know you are turning 60, but together we are 30 in our hearts. Cheers, "big ears," to more memories of fun-shine moments, crazy projects together, wheeling & dealing, stargazing, road trips, and absolutely many, many more years of friendship and happenstance adventures! Happy 60th birthday, Jena! You have been an immeasurable blessing to both Bill and me, and Pend, you are the bonus blessing! We love you both! Happy 60th Birthday!

I don’t have a particular story but rather lots of memories from college and beyond. I remember a college trip to Barrington with the sorority gals and how in awe I was of Jena and how much fun we had! Since college I’ve been lucky enough to see her in Colorado every once in awhile. Our recent group 60th birthday celebration in Nashville made me realize how lucky I am to have Jena as a friend - a true gem!

I don’t have a particular story but rather lots of memories from college and beyond. I remember a college trip to Barrington with the sorority gals and how in awe I was of Jena and how much fun we had! Since college I’ve been lucky enough to see her in Colorado every once in awhile. Our recent group 60th birthday celebration in Nashville made me realize how lucky I am to have Jena as a friend - a true gem!

Where did you first meet Jena?
Tri-Delta sorority house

Tri-Delta sorority house

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Fun-loving, adventurous, happy, caring, beautiful!

Fun-loving, adventurous, happy, caring, beautiful!

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
At Holly Craver’s wedding, Jena took the drummer’s place when the band took a break. That made a big impression on my husband as the coolest gal around!

At Holly Craver’s wedding, Jena took the drummer’s place when the band took a break. That made a big impression on my husband as the coolest gal around!

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena makes me remember to make the most of life!

Jena makes me remember to make the most of life!

What else would you like to share about Jena?
Jena spreads joy and laughter - keep it coming! Happy birthday!

Jena spreads joy and laughter - keep it coming! Happy birthday!

Aunt Jena, from a young age you spoiled Logan & I - taking us to Cubs games, Fire games, & Dave and Busters. Fun to think back on all the MT trips, and downtown excursions as young kids visiting 5903.

Aunt Jena, from a young age you spoiled Logan & I - taking us to Cubs games, Fire games, & Dave and Busters. Fun to think back on all the MT trips, and downtown excursions as young kids visiting 5903.

Where did you first meet Jena?
Probably 186 or my parents schoolhouse, if i had to guess..

Probably 186 or my parents schoolhouse, if i had to guess..

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Fun, lively, talkative, exciting, and social!

Fun, lively, talkative, exciting, and social!

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
I remember one time you lost hearts & had to drive the tractor by the Olandt's BBQ/fire late at night in some embarrassing clothing at weird hours of the night, ha! Also fun experiences when Logan & I were young kids watching movies at your house, dave & busters, and simply being a kid downtown when we were always so suburban. Also Jena (+Pend) were two of the first folks out onto the dancefloor at our wedding, which was a great time! Thanks for providing some party-ing services to keep it lively :)

I remember one time you lost hearts & had to drive the tractor by the Olandt's BBQ/fire late at night in some embarrassing clothing at weird hours of the night, ha! Also fun experiences when Logan & I were young kids watching movies at your house, dave & busters, and simply being a kid downtown when we were always so suburban. Also Jena (+Pend) were two of the first folks out onto the dancefloor at our wedding, which was a great time! Thanks for providing some party-ing services to keep it lively :)

How has Jena impacted your life?
A fun aunt, we had great times visiting downtown at 5903. Also as adults, having some wine on the porch in Rollins, or celebrating at our wedding in recent years: always a fun time when Jena is around!

A fun aunt, we had great times visiting downtown at 5903. Also as adults, having some wine on the porch in Rollins, or celebrating at our wedding in recent years: always a fun time when Jena is around!

What else would you like to share about Jena?
You're a lively, fun, aunt to be around! Always keep that young attitude and as Mimi would say 'just go for it.' We all love you, Aunt Jena & happiest of birthdays. Hope it's a wonderful day, and better year ahead - stay young! Age is just a mind-set anyways

You're a lively, fun, aunt to be around! Always keep that young attitude and as Mimi would say 'just go for it.' We all love you, Aunt Jena & happiest of birthdays. Hope it's a wonderful day, and better year ahead - stay young! Age is just a mind-set anyways

Happy 60th Birthday to Jena who is an amazing friend, sister, daughter, aunt, step-mother, dog mother, prankster and so much more!

Happy 60th Birthday to Jena who is an amazing friend, sister, daughter, aunt, step-mother, dog mother, prankster and so much more!

Where did you first meet Jena?
Although Jena and I were sorority sisters at Illinois, we really didn't become 'best' friends until I moved to Chicago in 1998 when a college friend Monica Harper reconnected us. The first 'outing' with Jena was the Air & Water Show in Chicago when Jena pulled over to the side of Lake Shore Drive so I could see the planes fly overhead and that was 25 years ago this August!

Although Jena and I were sorority sisters at Illinois, we really didn't become 'best' friends until I moved to Chicago in 1998 when a college friend Monica Harper reconnected us. The first 'outing' with Jena was the Air & Water Show in Chicago when Jena pulled over to the side of Lake Shore Drive so I could see the planes fly overhead and that was 25 years ago this August!

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Funster, Care-Taker, Loyal, Authentic, Beautiful (Inside & Out)

Funster, Care-Taker, Loyal, Authentic, Beautiful (Inside & Out)

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
My first truly funny memory post-college was inviting Jena to a food/wine tasting event at Navy Pier and she took a huge flower bouquet from a famous chef's table (the staff had left as they were out of food); she confidently passed security guards with this huge bouquet on a trolley, crammed the bouquet through my car's roof-top window and later featured the bouquet at her house party (thereafter becoming my partner in crime at all my company events)!; Jena's orangutan dance which she has famously performed many times but the funniest was at the top of Vail ski mountain on our annual girls ski trip in full snow ski attire when her HR manager recognized her from a distance; her classic Marilyn Monroe flashing to the airplanes taking off in St Barth above our rental; both of us losing our wallets at the Illini NCAA finals; her many drum performances typically at friend's weddings! These are just a few highlights, but Jena's funniest moments are typically when she interacts with complete strangers and tries to shock them by making a funny comment mixed with a huge Cheshire grin! She once told some guys on the girl's ski trip that she was Jenna Jameson prior to really knowing who JJ was . . . LOL! And of course her 'naughty' jokes to the ski lift operators are classic.

My first truly funny memory post-college was inviting Jena to a food/wine tasting event at Navy Pier and she took a huge flower bouquet from a famous chef's table (the staff had left as they were out of food); she confidently passed security guards with this huge bouquet on a trolley, crammed the bouquet through my car's roof-top window and later featured the bouquet at her house party (thereafter becoming my partner in crime at all my company events)!; Jena's orangutan dance which she has famously performed many times but the funniest was at the top of Vail ski mountain on our annual girls ski trip in full snow ski attire when her HR manager recognized her from a distance; her classic Marilyn Monroe flashing to the airplanes taking off in St Barth above our rental; both of us losing our wallets at the Illini NCAA finals; her many drum performances typically at friend's weddings! These are just a few highlights, but Jena's funniest moments are typically when she interacts with complete strangers and tries to shock them by making a funny comment mixed with a huge Cheshire grin! She once told some guys on the girl's ski trip that she was Jenna Jameson prior to really knowing who JJ was . . . LOL! And of course her 'naughty' jokes to the ski lift operators are classic.

How has Jena impacted your life?
Jena has brought so much laughter, joy and silliness to my life that I will be forever grateful! She introduced me to Montana (Flathead Lake, Whitefish, Glacier Nat'l Park and Moose City), Siesta Key Beach, Nashville, Barrington and her grandmother's house on Kostner Ave. She has also invited me to many family gatherings with her parents - Wanda and Jim - wonderful parents and her entire family whom are welcoming to friends and very generous to their communities.

Jena has brought so much laughter, joy and silliness to my life that I will be forever grateful! She introduced me to Montana (Flathead Lake, Whitefish, Glacier Nat'l Park and Moose City), Siesta Key Beach, Nashville, Barrington and her grandmother's house on Kostner Ave. She has also invited me to many family gatherings with her parents - Wanda and Jim - wonderful parents and her entire family whom are welcoming to friends and very generous to their communities.

What else would you like to share about Jena?
From Jena I learned to treasure close friendships; help others when you can - a friend, family member, neighbor, colleague or stranger; making things happen; tenacity; living one's own vision (not others); laughing out loud, being fearless (not shy) and believing in spirits!

From Jena I learned to treasure close friendships; help others when you can - a friend, family member, neighbor, colleague or stranger; making things happen; tenacity; living one's own vision (not others); laughing out loud, being fearless (not shy) and believing in spirits!

To my awesome big sis and memory maven! This site is all about YOU! Our journey has been wild, but we're getting closer every day. Our friendship? It's a blend of wine, laughter, creative sparks, and facepalms. You're the sun to my moon, and you bring endless joy. Happy 60th! Keep the adventures coming!

To my awesome big sis and memory maven! This site is all about YOU! Our journey has been wild, but we're getting closer every day. Our friendship? It's a blend of wine, laughter, creative sparks, and facepalms. You're the sun to my moon, and you bring endless joy. Happy 60th! Keep the adventures coming!

Where did you first meet Jena?
CBRE circa 2001: in the way-way back years when we were tethered to Uncle Ellis and were available to all—24/7.

CBRE circa 2001: in the way-way back years when we were tethered to Uncle Ellis and were available to all—24/7.

What are 5 adjectives you would use to describe Jena?
Brilliant, determined, creative, insightful, and kind-hearted

Brilliant, determined, creative, insightful, and kind-hearted

What are your funniest memories of Jena?
One hilarious memory was when you turned a stressful business meeting into a comedy gig. You did this hilarious orangutan impersonation, scrambling across the stage and scratching your head. Your humor always brightens our workdays!

One hilarious memory was when you turned a stressful business meeting into a comedy gig. You did this hilarious orangutan impersonation, scrambling across the stage and scratching your head. Your humor always brightens our workdays!

How has Jena impacted your life?
You've pushed me to take risks, be my best self, and embrace giving back. I live by your motto: "Go For It!" You're not just a business partner, you're my inspiration. Nothing but love for you!

You've pushed me to take risks, be my best self, and embrace giving back. I live by your motto: "Go For It!" You're not just a business partner, you're my inspiration. Nothing but love for you!

What else would you like to share about Jena?
You have a genius mind, and what I adore most is that I can see in pictures what you see in words. Together, we make a powerful duo. Your presence in my life is a true blessing. Alright, enough screen time! Grab that corkscrew, pop open another bottle of wine, embrace the vintage, and let's raise our glasses. Here's to the shining star you are and the wild adventure that lies ahead! 💛🥂

P.S. - we need to take more pics!

You have a genius mind, and what I adore most is that I can see in pictures what you see in words. Together, we make a powerful duo. Your presence in my life is a true blessing. Alright, enough screen time! Grab that corkscrew, pop open another bottle of wine, embrace the vintage, and let's raise our glasses. Here's to the shining star you are and the wild adventure that lies ahead! 💛🥂<br /> <br /> P.S. - we need to take more pics!